FROM: Nicole in Harrisburg, PA. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 13 years but every time I ask him to marry me he says something bad about me and says we are going to get married. I’m thinking about leaving cause it seems like he is playing me. What should I do? Please help.  Read More »

FROM: Sue in Sacramento, CA. Dear Mr. Moxie, I have just come through some very tough emotional times and I ended up all alone-without my child, family, and only one friend left. I finally was able to overcome my traumatic experience, and want to do something to make a difference. Many people have suggested I write a book since my story could very much help other women. Your thoughts?? P.S. I live alone and am tired of a solitary life. Should I get out there and show the world I got what it takes?  Read More »

FROM: Ryleigh in Los Banos. So me & this guy have had this thing going on, but we were never officially together. I thought we really really felt for each other, because he’d tell me how beautiful & sweet I was. And my best friend told me that he told her that all we had was a bet. I COULDN’T believe it. And now he’s with a friend of mine. I don’t want to still love him, but I do. What should I do?!  Read More »

FROM: Nancy in Unknown. Hello Mr. Moxie I met the love of my life 3 years ago. We were inseparable, meeting someone late in life was great. I had never had anything like him in my life. My friends told me he was nothing but a womanizer. Eventually, he got with the newly widowed friend of mine, some friend! What is a womanizer? Thank you. Hacked 4 sure.   Read More »

FROM: Savanna in Dayton, OH. Everybody says that I’m too young to be engaged but I really love him and he’s asked me like 5 times. I’m not sure what I’m supposed to do. I really love him but I don’t know if I’m ready for commitment and engagement and a wedding in the future.  Read More »

FROM: Bb in Secret city. My bf left me without reasons! When I call he says he’s about to run out of minutes! Then he says I’ll talk to u later! Then it’s brief. Help me understand? Also: he says I am at work! Can’t talk.   Read More »

FROM: Indiangyal in Yonkers, NY. I’ve been with my bf for almost 2 yrs now. I do love him but he argues with me over everything, I mean stupid things. But he is good to me and my daughter. We live in a room and share a kitchen and bathroom and it’s hectic. Do you think it’s because of the surroundings around us and if we got our own place we wouldn’t argue as much?  Read More »

FROM: BIGGYRL in Omaha, NE. I’m a 56 year-old black woman. I want to know why men can’t be faithful. I’M LOOKING FOR A GOOD MAN, NOT JUST ANY MAN. Please help me.  Read More »

FROM: Lili in GA. I’m not sure if I’m in love still. The thing is that my hubby is really caring when it comes to taking care of me financially and all but there are times when I try to make something romantic and he is not romantic at all. It really hurts me. And recently I have began thinking of other guys. He wants to have a big Catholic wedding since we just went to the courthouse but just thinking about it makes me feel like God is gonna strike me with lighting if I say I DO :/  Read More »

FROM: Shayla in Trenton, NJ. I have been having sex with this guy for about 2 yrs now. We have a good time when we are around each other but we are not in a relationship. I’ve started to really fall for him and would like to see it go farther than what it is right now. I know he cares about me but I just want to see where this goes for me. We love being around each other and we enjoy the same things. What should I do about getting in a relationship with him? Or should I just let it be, so that I won’t push him away or scare him?  Read More »

FROM: Unsure in Dallas, TX. I really liked this guy who used to crush on other people. But currently he’s single and so I took the liberty to try and make friends with him. Now we are really good friends. But I am still unsure whether to tell him my true feelings or just stay friends. I personally think we should just stay friends because he isn’t a very good worker but lately he’s been changing. What should I do!!??!  Read More »

FROM: Frustrated Wifey in Colorado Springs, CO. Hi Mr. Moxie I love your advice and really hope that you can help me out. So what do you do if you feel that your marriage is not 50/50. I have already tried to tell him how I feel but he always pushes things back on me like I am the problem. Please help. It has been 5 years with one child and another on the way. I want my little family to stay together and not to mention I’ve been put down so much over the years by him that with my low self esteem I don’t think I have what it takes to leave and make it on my own. I am only 24.  Read More »

FROM: Jess in Pacoima, CA. My ex boyfriend and I broke up 7 months ago. We both decided to take time to work on ourselves. I still love him but I still can’t get over my trust issues. He never did anything to me, and my trust issues are from the past but they did affect my relationship. And now that were talking again, I find myself insecure. I HATE that I feel I need to go through his apartment and things. What’s wrong with me? Am I just looking for an excuse? I hate feeling this way and would love to overcome it to have a healthy relationship.   Read More »

FROM: fsc in Phoenix, AZ. Do you think internet flirting/chatting is cheating, if you’re in a relationship?  Read More »