Relationships
Question and Answer: Tis More Blessed To Give Than Receive?

FROM: Too Sensitive? in Orlando, FL. Every year I put a lot of thought into every gift. I’ve been with my bf five years now and he always tries hard to get me something I like and I love his effort. This year though he didn’t get anything for me. I don’t want expensive things from him but it would be nice to receive something. I acted like it was ok and he said he would make it up to me but I said don’t worry about it. Yet inside I’m feeling kind of hurt and feeling ridiculous about being hurt. I don’t expect much because he’s not into gift giving but I still feel let down. Am I being petty over something stupid?  Read More »

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Question and Answer: Rapunzel Turns 50

FROM: Zoe in Texas. Is it bad for a woman over 50 to wear long hair? Don’t look my age.  Read More »

Question and Answer: Getting Past Cheating

FROM: D in West Palm Beach. Hey Mr. moxie- well I’ve been with this guy for about a year now and he cheated on me about 4 months ago. Now I don’t trust anything he does or says! Can I get any advice? What should I do?  Read More »

Question and Answer: Old Flings On The Ringy Ding Ding

FROM: Radiohead in LA. I’ve been with this guy for about 9 months, now there for the most part I know with my whole heart we are in love. My question is he has old pictures of a couple of old flings in his phone. What does this mean? Is he cheating?  Read More »

Question and Answer: Still The Best Policy

FROM: Clueless in Pittsburgh. I really enjoy reading the advice you give others and figured I needed some of my own. I recently stopped seeing a guy I had been seeing off and on for three years. My problem is I was head over heels when we first started and things progressed very quickly. First an ex visiting me made him uneasy and it got really rocky after that. We tried to continue the relationship and I thought being open and honest was the best way to go, but that backfired.  Read More »

Question and Answer: Breaking The Ice

FROM: Tephany in TX. There’s this guy I have a crush on but every time I see him I can’t speak … I go mute and start shaking a lot. In other words, I’m shy around him. He doesn’t talk to me either and when we are together it gets awkward. plz help  Read More »

Question and Answer: Love At First Sight or Blind Love?

FROM: Unknown in Texazz. Hey moxie, Well I am wondering if you could help me out. I’m with my boyfriend of a year. We met in 2011 at a club an it’s kinda like saying love at first sight. So yes we already have a beautiful newborn baby boy. Well I still don’t see changes in my boyfriend. I mean every time he wouldn’t work, he would go out with friends. He tells me that he isn’t with girls but I don’t believe him because sometimes he gets home 2 to 3 days later. So I don’t know what to do. The day I got out from the hospital he wasn’t even here.  Read More »

Question and Answer: When A Man Loves A Woman

FROM: Alicia in Memphis. How do you know if a man loves you?  Read More »

Question and Answer: The Return of The Father

FROM: Kevin in Ada. Great advice from a great mind. I have a teen daughter with whom I have been an absent father. I try calling but the calls don’t go thru. I write to her but get no reply. No reliable vehicle. I can’t seem to get a response at all. What do I do?   Read More »

Question and Answer: Bumping The Big Boy

FROM: Lonely in Anaheim. I have a bf who is 23, 260 lbs and is a driver. He is also 4 years older than me. Is there a reason why he is not intimate with me? I know it’s him. I am always willing to please him. But it’s as if he would rather masturbate than go through the workout of sex. Please give me your advice.  Read More »

Question and Answer: Chat Cheater

FROM: Lily in Chino. Do you think that texting and sending photos of other women is considered cheating? My bf says it’s not because he hasn’t done “ANYTHING” with her. He has been chatting with this girl even when I was pregnant and it continued even when I just had given birth to our child.  Read More »

Question and Answer: Too Far and Too Long

FROM: Love Long Distance in Chicago. I have been away from my boyfriend of 5yrs for the last year trying to take care of family problems in my hometown. Since I’ve been away, we have been fighting a lot. Is it just because of the distance issue or should I be worried that it could be someone else?  Read More »

Question and Answer: The Bridal Non-Shower

FROM: Bad Guy Bride in Birmingham. I love love LOVE my soon to be husband. He’s everything I could’ve ever asked for. But he gets really annoying after I tell him “no” to certain things, like sexual favors or co-ed showering, which makes me feel awful for having an opinion. How can I love and handle him without strangling him at the altar?  Read More »

Question and Answer: I Wish I Could Quit You

FROM: Michael in Greensboro. Even though two people love one another, when do you say enough’s enough?  Read More »

Question and Answer: Uncle Handsy

FROM: Amanda in PA. Hey Mr. Moxie I’m in a bit of a pickle. I have been with my bf for about two years. I have been living with him and his family (his two uncles) for that time. Now the problem is one of his uncles has been trying to make a move on me. I’ve told him to stop but he keeps looking at me, trying to touch me and things like that. I want to tell my bf but I know he will take his family’s side over mine. What should I do? Please help!   Read More »